Having One&Two Or More
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Family is the most important part of the society. The families get together and
make the
society.
The family consept defines the society's cultural and conservative situation.
All grown up people decide to marry and after marriage they will have children.
It is really
important
to make the numbers of children clear. Looking after and bringing up more than
one or
two
children needs great responsibilities and duties. That gives some duties to
government, as
well.
Therefore, firsly people must be sure that they want to have a child, after
that
they
have to obtain some circumstances for having and bringing up a child.
Having two or more children brings to people huge responsibilities and hard
duties. For
instance,
parent's budget divide into three or more, and, this will cause the money
decrease which
will
use for the children's education or their other needs. Parents can't buy or
supply one of the
children's
wishes or needs. However, the worst one is the children will have inadequate
or
less good education and this is very important loss for their future. On the
other hand , having
two
or more children cause population increase . If we look this situation with a
large view, we
see
that this condition have some bad effects on natural resources. The larger
numbers of people
on
the world get the natural resource exhausting. If we look at China, the
government
have
found a solution to uncontrolable population increase. Having more than one
children in
China
is banned. People can't have two or more children in China, so they would
prevent the
population
increase.
If you have only one or mostly two children , you can provide their needs or
wishes more
easily.
You do not need to astronomical fortune to provide them a good education. You
can look
after
one or two chilren more succesfully than having a very crowded family.
The children's psychological health is as important as the other points. The
parents must
interest
their hobbies, fun times and they should try to solve their children's
problems because
every
children needs their parents more than money and the other things. The
specialists warns
everybody
that children's success depends on families, directly. It is very hard to
balance all
children's
psychological health.
In this century, education and psychology of the people is important an
necessary for thir
whole
life. The improving work life needs human force and it is full with stress, so
when you
start
to work, you should have healthy and coherent psychological situation and a
good
education.
As everybody knows, all of these consepts are mostly provided by family. The
parents
must be interested their children carefully and eagerly besause in this century
success in
work
an school life and having a happy and regular life depends on good education
and
psychological
health.
Although having more than one or two children has many disadvantages, it has
some
good
and bad bringings. For intance, children who doesn't have a sister or brother,
doesn't share
anything
as emotional or material. He/she doesn't know the feeling of having a sibling.
In the
future,
she/he will feel hisself lonely becouse old aged people need a sister or
brother as a
friend
more than at young ages and at ald ages again, people would like to have
crowded
families.
On the other hand, in some countries family allowance is applied. People decide
to have
many
children so that they can get extra money from government. According to some
wiser
people
this case is supposed as an advantage of having more than two children.
As a result, chinging life standarts is not convenient for having more than one
or two
children.
Mostly two children is an ideal for nowaday's life conditions. Either parents
can provide
the
children's wishes and needs, or the children would have siblings that they will
share their
hapinness
and anxieties or sorrow in the future when they need to a close relative as a
friend.
Then,
thinking in this way would contribute world balance and it bring some positive
sides to
people's
life.
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